A neighbor's timely sign.
"In Jesus every one of God's promises is a 'Yes.'"
2 Corinthians 1:20
Rereading
the chapter “Learning to Listen” in Dennis Okholm’s Monk Habits for Everyday People, the question came to me, can I
really listen to President Trump?
Just
as I wrote that sentence, my mind jumped back to Anne Lamott’s clever
observation that, in learning to forgive, we might not want to start with
Adolph Hitler. Of course I don’t equate Trump with Hitler, but in terms of
extremes, Trump is harder to listen to, say, than a neighbor who is a Trump
supporter.
And
a personal friend or family member who is a Trump supporter is harder to listen
to than a neighbor because I have more invested emotionally, expecting them to
be “better.”
That’s
also why it is hard for me to listen to fellow Christians who resist the rights
of women and gay and transgender people, fail to welcome refugees and
immigrants, endorse harsh foreign and domestic policies, hinder
proper stewardship of creation, and give uncritical
support for military exploits. I expect more from Christians, more compassion,
more understanding—including those who
call themselves “evangelical,” who claim to bring “good news.”
Let
me clarify that for the purposes of this post, Donald Trump is an example of
our most troubling political leaders and commentators. He is not a scapegoat,
however; he is simply the most prominent among many disturbing figures in this
country and the world. He’s a bipartisan choice because he has riled
conservatives, liberals, and moderates alike, Republicans and Democrats, Libertarians
and independents.
Reading
the paper I often skip Trump news stories, as well as commentaries railing
against him. As a result, reading other articles, I’ve learned more about
science, culture, religion, and even government and citizenship. My attitude
has been, “This too shall pass.”
Nonetheless,
I have daily prayed for President Trump and Vice President Mike Pence—by
name—more than any previous president and vice president in my lifetime. I have
prayed for them compassion, wisdom, and knowledge, and I extend that prayer to our
electorate, as well as other leaders of our country and the world. Also,
religious leaders.
I
do read analyses of why we are so divided by political opinions, often posting
them for Facebook friends. I am particularly taken with the notion that our
vehement opposition is not simply because we disagree, but because we either
don’t trust the other side’s motives or don’t share the other side’s values. I
also appreciate articles that suggest ways to reach across our differences.
I
return to the question, can I really listen
to Donald Trump?
The
antagonistic and bullying tone of his tweets and off-the-cuff remarks conveys
insecurity and insult and incitement rather than thoughtful and wise and
helpful analysis. Some commentators have suggested he may be “crazy like a fox,”
manipulating the news cycle to some kind of advantage (crazy like Fox News?). I
just find him erratic, fragmented, contradictory, and phony.
President
Trump makes many of us knee-jerk reactionaries. His supporters automatically
cheer, his detractors automatically boo. When we cheer or boo, can we really listen?
Again,
never intending to equate the two, for me, trying to listen to Donald Trump is
like trying to forgive Adolph Hitler. It is “above my pay grade,” beyond my
spiritual capacity.
After
all, the Torah teaches us to love our neighbor and confront Pharaoh. Jesus taught
us to love our neighbor and give the emperor only what’s required. Early
Christians were considered subversive because they refused to recognize Caesar as
a god.
So,
listening to my neighbors, friends, and family members may be the best I can do
in this moment.
I
believe if we really listen to one another, we can find in our hearts what we
truly value and believe, as well as common ground, then act and vote accordingly.
And we can demonstrate love for neighbors by real engagement, not merely
getting along.
Saint
Benedict’s Rule for monks recommends
restraint in speech, not silence. And it’s helpful to remember that, as one interpreter
suggests, our speech often “sides with the part of us that resists grace.”
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