These
days of “do-it-yourself” improvement techniques have spawned an industry of providing
sometimes simplistic solutions to life’s problems. So my title is a little
tongue-in-cheek. I don’t present what
follows as “dramatic truth,” or “divine revelation,” let alone “the secret”!
At
the same time, I remember a friend reared as a United Methodist telling me he
had never been given a spiritual path until he was introduced to The Twelve
Steps. Another United Methodist—a
college professor or mine—shocked everyone by candidly answering “no!” to an
ordination question, “Are you on the road to perfection?”
Path or no path, I
believe that integrity, not perfection, is the goal.
Henri
Nouwen wrote in Reaching Out, “The
really great saints of history don’t ask for imitation. Their way was unique
and cannot be repeated. But they invite us into their lives and offer a
hospitable space for our own search.”
So
this is simply what I’ve gleaned from those we may consider saints, past or
present. And you might note that every other step toward sainthood is humility!
Step 1. Awareness
Religious
traditions call this by different names: awakening, conversion, enlightenment,
mindfulness, transcendence, born again. It’s not so much “knowledge” as an
eye-opening, perhaps heart-rending, experience. We have a taste of this when we
fall in love, have a baby, or encounter injustice.
Something
or someone draws us out of ourselves and our self-concerns. It might be an
experience of awe—say, viewing the Milky Way in a very black sky. It might be
an experience of terror, or of hitting rock-bottom, and realize our need to
reach out to a Higher Power or other people.
However
it comes our way, it’s an awareness that we are not alone, but not just that,
that there is something greater than us, deeper than us, more vital than us.
Some call this God, others call it Spirit, others simply the human community.
Many people think they
have arrived, that they’ve done all that’s needful when they experience this
conversion, this awakening, this awareness.
Maybe
they’re right. Taking this step is a good thing in and of itself.
Step 2. Humility
Don’t
think of ourselves as superior because we may be aware. This is perhaps the
greatest liability of religion. Converts think they have arrived, that they
have the answers, and that somehow they’re better than those who haven’t
converted, sometimes even better than those who converted long ago, proving the
cliché, “No one more zealous than a recent convert.” Cockiness,
false-confidence, I know all there is to know, I’ve done all there is to do,
and I’m saved, or enlightened, or complete—and you’re not.
True awareness makes me
see my self, my experience, as only a part of the whole. True awareness makes me
see “my” answer as only one among many. True awareness makes me see my lifespan
here on earth as a second of eternity. This is the meaning of eternal life,
that we have been given a glimpse of eternity, an eternal perspective through
which to view our brief lifespans.
True
awareness contextualizes my life, puts my life in its proper context, not
greater than, not lesser than…
Step 3. Practice and
expand awareness
Many
stop at awareness, but an old awareness can become as stultifying, limiting, or
paralyzing as no awareness at all, as a person who is clueless. I have been
given a clue by my awareness, but it is only one clue, and does not solve the
mystery of life, if solving such mystery is even desirable, let alone possible.
To practice my faith, I
need to expand my awareness to avoid being entrapped. Buddhism calls it
letting go of the lower rungs of the ladder. Zen Buddhism calls it “killing the
Buddha.” In Christianity Jesus said he must leave for the Spirit to guide his
followers into further truth.
As
we deepen our faith, we may expand our awareness enough to embrace other
faiths, other spiritual paths. We do this in prayer, meditation, using sacred
and inspirational texts, participating in spiritual community, consulting
diverse spiritual guides: those whose spiritual authority we recognize who may
serve as soul friends or spiritual directors.
Step 4. Humility
I
must not think I have “earned” awareness or its benefits.
The
film Amadeus was about two musicians,
Salieri and Mozart. Salieri thought by devoting his music to God that he would
be rewarded with timeless compositions. Mozart lived a wild life, yet we are
much more familiar with his name and music.
Though we practice
awareness, we can’t expect, as Salieri did, that our devotion will earn us
timeless illuminations. The Spirit blows where she will. We may only make ourselves
available to feel it.
Step 5. Move
Much
regard is given taking a spiritual stand, as in “I shall not be moved!” Yet to
me, spiritual metaphors imply movement. Abraham and Sarah left Ur. The Hebrews were
liberated from Egypt to search for a promised land. Christians took their
gospel to the ends of the earth. The Buddha left his princely home. Think of
the quest for the Holy Grail or Pilgrim’s Progress.
The spiritual quest
means we are headed somewhere, if “only” spiritually.
Step 6. Humility
Don’t
make a show of it.
In
our recognition-hungry and drama-driven culture, I might want to make this
spiritual movement a public production involving a cast of thousands. It might
be valued if it makes a big splash, appears on TV, receives awards, and has a
million Twitter followers.
But most spiritual
quests are very personal affairs, often unseen. Jesus advised against praying
on street corners, favoring going into one’s closet to pray.
Step 7. Arrive
A
spiritual quest has a destination, a vision, a hope. A promised land. Peace and
justice. A spiritual commonwealth, how I refer to “the kingdom of God.”
Buddhahood. Nirvana. A future in which lion and lamb may lie down together.
Let’s celebrate whenever
the commonwealth of God comes near or is in our midst!
Step 8. Humility
Don’t
stay there. When I feel that I have arrived, that’s spiritually the most
dangerous place. If I think I have no need to grow, nothing to learn, nothing
to receive—well, “it’s hard to be humble when you’re as great as I am!”
The Bodhisattva is one who returns from Nirvana to show others the way. In Judaism,
Christianity, and Islam, we help others through acts of charity and justice.
“Faith
without works is dead.”
A
sociological axiom has it that, at an oasis in a wilderness, those who talk
about where they have been rather than where they are going have been at the
oasis the longest. They have contented themselves with the oasis and have an
“oasis mentality.”
One
Jewish tradition has it that the Israelites spent most of their forty years in
the wilderness at an oasis within sight of the Promised Land!
So I think of these
eight steps as a spiral of repeating cycles. I believe that, in the spiritual
life, there is no “finish line.”
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I like that this is based on experience and not just theory. Thanks for sharing. In Bible Study this week someone had same idea i had about "how do we share the rather unique stuff we are about at St. Andrew's Presby?" ----"don't use words!" Ha! See what people pick up from us without our using our words. LOL
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